Dulhe Raja's Guide to Rock his Wedding

Published: 09 Jun 2025 • Last Updated: 09 Jun 2025


So you've decided to tie the knot somewhere beautiful, maybe those dreamy Udaipur palaces or the stunning beaches of Goa? Smart choice! Butas the groom, you've got some homework to do. Don't worry, we've got your back with these super practical tips that'll make your big day smooth and memorable.

1.      Always Have a Plan B (And Maybe Plan C Too!)

Here's the thing about destination weddings, they're beautiful but unpredictable. That outdoor mandap you planned? What if it suddenly rains? That beachside ceremony? What if it gets too windy for the havan? Keep backup plans ready for everything. Have an indoor venue option, extra tents, and alternative timings. Pack extra clothes because you never know when you'll need a quick change. Most importantly, stay cool when things don't go as planned. Some of the best wedding stories come from those "oops" moments that turned into magical memories.

Trust us, your guests will remember how calmly you handled the chaos more than the chaos itself.

2.      Don't Be a Tired Groom on Your Wedding Day

Indian weddings are like IPL tournaments; they go on for days! And destination weddings can be even more tiring because you're away from home comfort. Our venues ensure max comfort and flexibility to make you feel at home on your big day, but there's a few things you can do otherwise as well. Start working out at least 3 months before your wedding. You don't need to become a gym bro, but some cardio and yoga will help you survive those long ceremonies. Eat well, sleep properly, and cut down on late-night planning calls. During the wedding days, take power naps whenever possible. Yes, even 20 minutes between events helps! Keep glucose and dry fruits handy, you'll need the energy. And please, eat something before the ceremonies. We know you're excited, but hungry grooms make cranky grooms.

3.      Delegate Like a Boss

You're the groom, not the event manager. Stop trying to handle everything yourself! Your best man, brothers, and close friends are there for a reason, use them. Make a WhatsApp group with your core team and assign specific responsibilities. Someone handles guest coordination, someone manages vendors, someone takes care of your outfit changes. This way, you can focus on looking good and enjoying your functions.

4.      Take Care of Your Look and Feel

Start your skincare routine early, Indian weather can be harsh, and you want to glow in those photos. Book your grooming appointments well in advance at your destination city. Pack comfortable juttis or mojaris that you've already broken in. New shoes on wedding day = disaster. Keep a small grooming kit handy throughout the celebrations for quick touch-ups. Quick tip: Hand a small kit with a bit of thread and a needle to someone close in advance, you never know when you need a quick fix.

5.      Stay Connected but Stay Present

Your phone will be buzzing constantly, but don't become as lave to it. Designate specific people to handle calls and messages during ceremonies. Set up a family WhatsApp group where everyone can share updates and photos. This keeps everyone in the loop without bothering you constantly. Tip of the day: use apps/services that allow your guests to add photos to a common album, or find themselves using AI facial recognition in the premium photos taken by your awesome photographers.

6.      Keep Your Energy High

Destination weddings mean lots of travel and new environments. Your body might not be used to the local water or food, so be careful. Carry your medicines and stay hydrated. Plan lighter events on days before main ceremonies. Save your energy for the big moments. And here's a secret, take 10 minutes alone before walking into each function. Breathe, smile, and remind yourself why you're doing this.

Last but not least…Enjoy the Journey!!

At the end of the day, this is YOUR celebration. Don't get so caught up in making everything perfect that you forget to enjoy it. Dancelike nobody's watching, laugh till your stomach hurts, and soak in every moment. Your destination wedding is going to be incredible, different from what you planned, but incredible nonetheless. Trust the process, trust your people, and get ready for the best days of your life!

Remember, Dulhe Raja, the goal isn't a perfect wedding, it's the start of a perfect marriage. Everything else is just beautiful chaos that makes great stories later!

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Manya Gupta

Manya is a wordsmith on a caffeine-fueled mission: by day, an engineer; by night, a mischievous writer weaving human quirks into crisp, curious prose. When not tinkering with code or carbon-credit startups, you'll find her crafting ideas that dance between imagination and impact—often narrated by an imaginary grandma who insists on calling every plot twist "just delightful." Expect unexpected metaphors, a dash of irreverence, and never a dull sentence.

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